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The stag convergence wheaton, kripke, and the guys
The Wolowitz stag party.
The Big Bang Theory episode
Season 5, Episode 22
April 26, 2012
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"The Stag Convergence" is the twenty-second episode of the fifth season of the American sitcom The Big Bang Theory. This episode first aired on Thursday, April 26, 2012.[1]


At Howard's bachelor party, a drunken Raj reveals a little too much about Howard's past sexual encounters, causing Bernadette to reconsider marrying him after she finds all the toasts on YouTube.

Extended PlotEdit

At the Caltech cafeteria, Sheldon is musing while eating lunch and asks which life-form the guys would want to merge with. Raj wants to join a swan to have the long graceful neck he always wanted. Leonard suggests a horse for the height and genital size. Howard likes the idea of merging with a kangaroo to become  a "kanga-Jew" that can dunk basketballs. Sheldon prefers lichens, (a combination of algae and fungi) so that he can be three types of organisms in one. Raj then switches the topic and asks about Howard's bachelor party. Howard mentions that he promised Bernadette no strippers. Raj and Sheldon want to take a wine tasting train trip through Napa Valley.

At the apartment building, while Penny is walking up the stairs with Leonard, she tells him that she won't worry about him at the party since he never does anything crazy. She asks him what the craziest thing he had ever done with a woman is and that when they had sex in the ocean it doesn't count. Amy is filming the girls making wedding party gifts and asking Bernadette what their first married sex position going to be. Penny tells Amy to start asking other bridal party questions, which takes all the fun out of it for Amy.

The stag convergence Sheldon's speech

Sheldon tries to roast Howard. Bazinga!

The stag convergence raj, howard, and leonard

A drunk Raj brings up too much of Howard's past.

At the bachelor party, Sheldon has a couple of words with Wil Wheaton on being Howard’s friend. Stuart tries borrowing some money from Leonard to pay for the evening as Howard and Raj arrive. As the toasts begin, most of Sheldon's jokes fall flat, though he does give Howard a "double bazinga" and wishes him good luck. Leonard tells everyone he has had sex in the ocean and he can do crazy things. Stuart tells Howard that he has everything and that he is very unhappy living in the back of the comic book store. Barry Kripke just complains that there are no strippers. Raj tells everyone how Howard is his best friend, that when he came to America that he was very lonely, but after finding Howard, he realized they could be lonely together. He finishes up with the stories about Howard losing his virginity to his second cousin, having group sex with a heavy Sailor Moon girl at Comic-Con and Leonard and Raj paying for a Jewish role-playing prostitute in Las Vegas (to cheer him up after he was dumped by Leslie Winkle). Wil Wheaton records it all and uploads it onto the internet. Bernadette picks Howard and Raj up since they are drunk and is mad at both of them after seeing the video. She wonders how she can marry a man that she doesn't seem to know. The girls turn out not to be much help to her. Amy, for instance, suggests she has sex with a cousin to get even with Howard. Realizing Penny set them up while knowing Howard's speckled past, she asks Penny why she did so. Penny's response is insensitive because she didn't think their relationship would go further than meeting his mother or sleeping together, since the signs were there. Bernadette storms out crying.

The stag convergence wheaton, leonard, and sheldon

Is Will Howard's friend too?

The stag convergence penny, bernadette, and amy

They find Raj's toast on Youtube.

At first Howard keeps calling her and can't get any good advice about women from his friends. He shows up and gives Penny a message that he was sorry, that he also doesn't like the man he used to be and that the man Bernadette knows is who he is because of her. Penny gushes that that was the most beautiful thing she had ever heard and that it came from Howard of all people. Bernadette hears him and tells him that the wedding is not off, though she is still quite angry with him. They all end up in a group hug which Amy finds "hot".

Later, Leonard meets Penny in the laundry room and tells her that they are going to get crazy and have sex on one of the machines. Penny declines and tells him to help her fold her sheets. He agrees and says that folding sheets in his boxers is pretty crazy too.


  • The TV Critic: "The Howard-Bernadette story was surprisingly simple, effective and believable. We know that Howard had a sleazy past of hitting on women relentlessly and I had just assumed that Bernadette was aware of that. But instead the writing plausibly portrayed her as seeing only the light side of him and not the grimy one...This wasn't a particularly interesting episode until the end where things wrapped up nicely. However it does continue the wedding story line which hopefully will provide for an interesting season finale."[2]
  • The A.V. Club gave this episode a C[3]
  • IMDb user reviews


  • Title Reference: The title of the episode refers to the bachelor party (also known as a stag party) that the guys are organizing for Howard.
  • Chuck Lorre's vanity card.
  • This episode was watched by 12.65 million people with a rating of 4.1 (adults 18-49).[4]
  • This episode aired in Canada on April 5, 2012 with 3.17 million viewers and a weekly ranking of #1.[5]
  • Episode transcript [1]



Sheldon: I wish you could all be inside my head. The conversation is sparkling!

Raj: Anyone has any words they'd like to say about the man of the evening?
Sheldon: Yeah, I do.
(Everybody groans)

Sheldon: Howard, I wish you nothing but happiness. Bazinga! I don't! Double-bazinga! I do!

Sheldon: Good luck following that.

Raj: Anybody else? Huh? No? Okay! It all comes down to me, as the best man. (Stands up) Ooo, this grasshopper's kicking my ass-hopper. Okay, okay. When I first came to this country, I, I didn't know how to behave, or how to dress, or what was cool, I was pretty lonely. But, then I met Howard and suddenly my life changed, because, we could be lonely together. This man became my whole world!
Kripke: Yeah, nice speech Francine! (Tucks some cash into his pants)
Raj: (Takes out the money) I'm not done but, thank you! I think back, to all the good times we had, like uh, when we went camping, and spent that night telling each other all our secrets.... I told him, I'm addicted to pedicures, and he told me he lost his virginity to his cousin. (Everybody laughs)
Howard: She was my second cousin.
Sheldon: And the first woman you ever disappointed sexually.
Raj: Oh, oh yeah, and then there was a time when Leonard and I took Howard to Las Vegas and, and paid a hooker to pretend she was Jewish, and that she wanted his little Kosher pickle. (Everybody laughs again) Of all the Howard-humping-hooker stories, that was my favorite!
Howard: (Stands up) Okay, buddy! That's it. Sit down.
Raj: Oh, oh, what about that, that tubby girl in the Sailor Moon costume at Comic Con?
Howard: I don't remember. Please sit down.
Raj: The only threesome I've ever had in my whole life. And I'm proud to say it was with this man, right here! (Everybody laughs)
Howard: Please, shut up.
Raj: Oh, oh, don't get me wrong. Nothing happened with me and Howard. There was about, 200 pounds of Sailor Moon between us!
Wheaton: (Recording the entire speech with his phone) Oh, internet, this is SO going all over you!
Sheldon: (Laughs) Jeepers, I'm drunk! (Clinks his glass with Wheaton's)

Penny: So, I hear you and the Lost Boys are having a Bachelor Party tonight.
Leonard: Yeah, just going to a restaurant. Get some steaks, some Scotch. You've nothing to worry about.
Penny: Why should I worry?
Leonard: I don't know, it's a bachelor party. There could be strippers. Won't that make you a little jealous?
Penny: Come on Leonard. It's you. What's gonna happen? I mean, even if there was a stripper, all you'd do is avoid eye contact and maybe offer to help her kid with his homework.
Leonard: Hey, I am a young man in his sexual prime. Under my conditions, I am capable of this, really crazy stuff.
Penny: Really? What is the craziest thing you've ever done with a woman? And the time you and I had sex in the ocean does not count.
Leonard: Oh, come on, that's gotta count. That was a really strong undertow, we could've died.
Penny: Well, have fun tonight!
Leonard: Oh, I will! There is NO telling what might happen.
Penny: (Snickers) Yeah, there is.
Leonard: You know, there's nothing wrong with helping some woman's kid get through their SATs.

Howard: So, what did you do tonight?
Bernadette: I found this. (Bernadette lifts up her phone and a video plays talking about Howard's previous affairs)
Raj: You know, my apartment isn't that far, if you stop now, I can walk home.
Bernadette: You're not going anywhere, three-way. You lied to me, you said you told me about all the women you've been with, but you never told me about your cousin, the prostitute, or Raj!
Howard: The prostitute was a gift! Shame on you, Raj, this is not how we treat women in this country!
Bernadette: Oh, no, you are not blaming him!
Raj: Thank you, Bernadette.
Bernadette: Zip it, pervert!

Kripke: I’ll go. Howard, I’m gonna say something to you that evewybody’s thinking but no one has the couwage to say out woud. When you invite a man to a bachewor pawty, the impwication is, there will be stwippews. Maybe not compwetewy nude, but at weast pasties and G-stwings. That’s not unweasonable.


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The Stag Convergence Sneak Peek 2


  • Penny, Amy, and Bernadette watch something from Penny's phone. (Not in final episode edit.)
  • The table draft for this episode.
  • A behind-the-scene look during the taping of the episode.
  • John Ross Bowie (Kripke), Kevin Sussman (Stuart) and Wil Wheaton during the tape night.
  • Amy as the maid of honor records the girls preparing for Bernadette's wedding.
  • Raj gives a speech at Howard's Bachelor Party as the rest watch.
  • Sheldon, Leonard, Howard, and Raj at the university's cafeteria.
  • Sheldon, Leonard, Howard, and Raj with Stuart, Kripke, and Wheaton.
  • Kripke, Wheaton, and Stuart join the guys at Howard's Bachelor Party.
  • Sheldon is not pleased with Wheaton, as Leonard watches him.
  • Wil Wheaton records Raj's speech.
  • Sheldon reads out his speech for Howard.
  • The guys sit together for dinner, with Sheldon consuming alcohol.
  • Sheldon breaks his personal rule of not drinking for one night to follow social convention.
  • Leonard laughs out loud.
  • Raj and Howard smiling during dinner.
  • Raj and Howard keep their bromance alive.
  • Chuck Lorre Productions, #386.


  1. The Big Bang Theory - The Stag Convergence (TV Episode 2012) - IMDb
  2. The TV Critic's Review
  3. The Big Bang Theory: “The Stag Convergence” - TV Club - The A.V. Club
  4. Thursday Final Ratings: 'Idol', 'Big Bang Theory', 'Grey's', 'The Vampire Diaries', 'Mentalist' & 'Missing' Adjusted Up; 'Scandal' Adjusted Down.
  5. Top Programs – Total Canada (English) April 23 – April 29, 2012 - BBM Canada

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